Agree or Disagree: Ello will be the anti-Facebook

Introducing Ello

Have you noticed that there is many Social Networks out there now? Quite frankly, there is too many to count.

But,we have another one coming into our midst.

The above link will greet you to Ello. A new Social Network.

What is Ello?

Well, this is their Manifesto. Right from their site

Your social network is owned by advertisers.

Every post you share, every friend you make and every link you follow is tracked, recorded and converted into data. Advertisers buy your data so they can show you more ads. You are the product that’s bought and sold.

We believe there is a better way. We believe in audacity. We believe in beauty, simplicity and transparency. We believe that the people who make things and the people who use them should be in partnership.

We believe a social network can be a tool for empowerment. Not a tool to deceive, coerce and manipulate — but a place to connect, create and celebrate life.

In other words, they are trying to be the anti-Facebook. Their words. Not mine.

Now, let’s have a quick chat about Facebook. Apparently, there is some disenchantment by how Facebook is being run. Some of you don’t like the advertisements. Or, how some people can see your posts and how some can’t.

However, it seems many of you still use it. I still use it. As a matter of fact, this post will be on Facebook.

Now let’s have a quick chat about Ello.

Two things struck me. It’s common for Social Networks to establish invites. I get that. What I didn’t get was the email response to my invite which was this.

Thank you for your interest in Ello.

We will invite you as soon as we can. Ello is currently in beta, and we are inviting new users in small groups as we roll out new features.

In the meantime, please share our Manifesto — and help us spread the word.

I was turned off by this. If you are going to tell me to get an invite, well why are you telling me that you aren’t ready for an invite? I wasn’t impressed by this. It strikes me as arrogant. It strikes me as unprepared. It strikes me as elitist. I admit this is an instant reaction, but first impressions stick sometimes.

Anyway, the early theory of Ello is it will be the anti-Facebook

Here is an article you can read from the BBC about Ello. Read

So, let’s ask a couple of questions.

Are you losing interest in Facebook? Why?

Are you interested in Ello? What are you expecting from this Network?

Normally I post an Agree or Disagree at this point….But this is a must read.

I typically post a an Agree or Disagree at this point.
However, we have debated and discussed forever about the relationship between Christians and LGBT. We have criticized many Christians behaviour and actions.
However, this is some kudos. Read this response from a Christian Pastor if he found out his kids were gay.

And of course, discuss.

Read here.

Agree or Disagree: The Podcast-Finding Great People Great Dates

met with Myke Macapiniac and  Erin Skye Kelly to discuss two projects that they are involve in two separate projects.

Myke is trying to get girls to meet good men. He has a project called the Social Man Project. He discusses how men can be more successful at dating.

Erin is having a divorce and transition weekend at the Banff Springs Hotel. It will run from October 3-5.

Topics we discuss include:

Agree or Disagree: It’s tough to date after divorce.
Myke’s perspective on men’s options on dating in Calgary.
Erin’s perspective on women’s option on dating in Calgary..

Their projects.

A contest in which you can win prizes. Quite Simply, if you mention to Myke and Erin that you heard of their projects through Agree or Disagree: The Podcast, you will win some great prizes!

You need to listen to find out. Click here to learn how to get a great date!

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Agree or Disagree: It’s tough to be dating after your are divorced

Divorce and Singles Transition Weekend

You may have heard of this event coming up next weekend.

It is a Divorce and Singles Transition Weekend coming up on October 3-5 at the Banff Springs Hotel. The host is Erin Skye Kelly. Who, incidentally, will be joining me on an Agree or Disagree: The Podcast to discuss this event. The above link is a Facebook Invite.

Now, I have never been married. So, this would also mean, I have never been divorced. But several of you have been divorced. You know the difficulties and the challenges the dating game after your divorced. Mentally, spirtually and emotionally.

As I mentioned, Erin will be joining us on the Podcast to give the event some more depth. So, I give you some questions to discuss.

What challenges are there dating after divorce?

If you are divorced, would you, or have you dated someone who has not been divorced? Why or why not?

If you have never been divorced, would or have you dated someone who has been divorced?

Agree or Disagree: Gay Rights groups should be angered by the ” rugby marriage”

Agree or Disagree: Gay Rights groups should be angered by this “marriage”

Have you heard of the marriage of Travis McIntosh and Matt McCormick?

They are in New Zealand they got married!

Isn’t that exciting? Another happy marriage! It is another progress for the LGBT movement right?


The reason? Travis and Matt are not gay. They are straight.

The other reason? They got married to win rugby tickets. You read that right. Rugby tickets.

McIntosh and McCormick tied the knot got hitched at a rugby stadium. 60 of their closest friends and tens of thousands were listening live.

This has caused anger from some gay rights groups.

In the above article from The Sydney Morning Herald, Alex Greenwich, an independent MP for Sydney and former convenes of Australian Marriage Equality is quoted as saying this.

“It essentially makes a mockery of marriage. Marriage is a really important institution about love and commitment and it’s sad to see that there are people who are making a joke out of that.”

What do you think? Is this something people standing for gay marriage should be upset about?

Agree or Disagree: You should have sex with your spouse every day.

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First of all, I’m single and not married.

I’ve had conversations with friends of mine that are in long term relationships. I have to tell you that I don’t believe I have ever heard the expectation of sex every day with your spouse. I hear more of a thought of relationships change in time. And that expressions of love change.

But, the writer of the above Huffington Post, who is a wife, believes she should have sex with her husband every day.

She gives 5 reasons. I’ll let you read the article, but I’ll give you the short version.

1. It is a celebration of her femininity.
2. Men need to have sex and feel loved.
3. It is an opportunity to create moments with couples.
4. Sex relieves stress.
5. Sex is fun.

What are your thoughts?

Agree or Disagree: Accepting the Hook-Up Culture is Getting the 20-Somethings Nowhere

How the Hookup Culture has affected 20 somethings

The above article proposes that the current hookup culture has impacted the 20’s something in a negative light.

For those that are in their 20’s, what do you think of that?

For those that don’t know about hookup culture is. It is a culture that encourages casual sexual encounters and casual sexual relationships.

What do you think?